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  • NicoleDeRosa
  • Apr 26
  • 4 min read

Updated: Apr 27




Today, I’m sharing a collection of my favorite recipes to help you create a Mother’s (and Mother Figures) Day brunch to remember. It’s the perfect opportunity to celebrate the women who’ve nurtured, supported + inspired us, whether that’s moms, grandmothers, sisters, aunts, friends, or teachers. Gather your loved ones + treat them to a beautiful, bountiful brunch featuring any (or all!) of the dishes below.





French EGGS BENEDICT


This Mother’s Day favorite gets an elegant upgrade with a few French-inspired twists. Consider this your invitation to say bonjour to a fresh take on a brunch classic. Flaky croissants replace the traditional base, layered with creamy brie, tender asparagus + savory prosciutto, all topped with a rich, velvety hollandaise. It’s Eggs Benedict, just elevated to something truly special.


Prep Time: 25 min. / Cook Time: 20 min. / Total Time: 45 min. / Servings: 4


Ingredients

4 croissants

8 oz brie cheese, sliced

8 slices of prosciutto

bunch of organic asparagus, stalks trimmed

8 eggs (I like Vital Farms brand)

1/4 cup white vinegar

4 egg yolks

1/2 tbsp organic lemon juice, freshly squeezed (I like Santa Cruz Organics)

1/2 cup butter, melted (I like Miyoko's plant based butter)

1/4 tsp salt


Directions

1. Preheat oven to 375 degrees.


2. Bring a pot of water to a boil. When close to boiling, add the vinegar to help keep the eggs in place for a perfect poach.


3. Carefully pour each egg into the water.


4. Cook for 3 to 4 minutes until the egg white is set but the yolk is still runny.


5. Use a slotted spoon to remove the egg from the water onto a paper towel-lined plate. Set eggs aside.


6. Steam asparagus by pouring a couple inches of water into a large pot + place a steamer basket inside. Bring the water to a boil, then add asparagus to the basket.


7. Cover the pot with lid + steam for about 3 to 5 minutes (depending on thickness of the asparagus). Remove asparagus from pot + set aside.


8. To make the hollandaise sauce, add egg yolks to a heat-safe bowl + whisk together for a couple minutes.


9. Add the lemon juice to the yolks + vigorously whisk until the mixture has thickened + doubled in size.


10. Place the bowl over a saucepan filled with simmering water, ensuring the water is shallow enough that it does not touch the bottom of the bowl.


11. Slowly add in the butter, while constantly whisking for several minutes until the mixture is nice + thick.


12. Remove from heat, add salt + whisk again.


13. Cut croissants in half lengthwise + place on a baking sheet + into the oven for about 4 minutes until just toasted. Remove from oven + set aside.


14. To assemble the Eggs Benedict, top each croissant half with brie cheese, a few asparagus spears, prosciutto + a poached egg. Then spoon the hollandaise over the egg + serve.







Strawberry Basil MIMOSA


Fresh fruit, fragrant herbs + a splash of bubbles, yes, please. This bright, seasonal twist on the classic mimosa blends sweet strawberry purée with orange juice, sparkling wine + a hint of aromatic basil.


It’s the perfect sip for Mother’s Day brunch or a sunny afternoon, capturing the best of strawberry season in every glass. Cheers to a cocktail that feels just as special as the occasion.




Prep Time: 10 min. / Total Time: 10 min. Servings: 6







Ingredients

1/2 cup freshly squeezed orange juice

2 cups strawberries

1/4 cup agave

4 fresh basil leaves

1/2 cup Sparkling Strawberry Basil French Soda

1 750 ml bottle champagne or prosecco (I like Veuve Clicquot Brut NV)


Directions

1. Cut the tops off the strawberries + toss them in a blender with the orange juice + basil leaves. Blend until smooth.


2. Add the strawberry puree + agave to a large pitcher + stir.


3. Add the champagne or prosecco + the soda to the pitcher + stir.


4. Serve in champagne flutes + garnish with strawberries.








White Chocolate + Berry TRIFLE


This effortlessly elegant trifle is as delicious as it is beautiful. Layered with creamy white chocolate + fresh, juicy berries, it’s a decadent dessert that feels special without the fuss. Served in individual glasses (martini glasses make a stunning presentation), these trifles are perfect for brunch entertaining. Mix + match your favorite berries for a colorful, crowd-pleasing treat that’s sure to impress.


Prep Time: 10 min. / Cook Time: 10 min. Total Time: 20 min. / Servings: 4



Ingredients

5 oz box shortbread cookies

1 cup white chocolate chips

3.4 oz package vanilla instant pudding mix

2 cups cold milk

2 cups Cool Whip, thawed

4 cups seasonal berries (I use strawberries, blackberries, raspberries + blueberries)

Fresh mint for garnish



Directions

1. Place the white chocolate chips in a microwave-safe bowl + microwave for 30 seconds, then stir.


2. Continue warming at 15 second intervals, stirring in between each until the chocolate is fully melted.


3. Once melted, set aside + allow to cool slightly.


4. In a large mixing bowl, whisk together the pudding mix + cold milk. Mix for 2 to 3 minutes until thickened.


5. Add in melted chocolate + whisk again.


6. Add 1/2 cup of the Cool Whip + mix until smooth.


7. To assemble the trifles, use your hands to break up two shortbread cookies into the bottom of each martini glass.


8. Pour the white chocolate pudding over the cookies, followed by a handful of berries.


9. Top with a generous dollop of whipped cream + garnish with fresh mint.



 
 
 



I was formally diagnosed with clinical Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD) during the pandemic, though it hadn’t come out of nowhere. For years, I’d had a lingering sense that something wasn’t quite right, that OCD might be part of my experience, but it wasn’t until that period, when everything intensified, that it became undeniable + finally put into words.


OCD is an anxiety disorder that goes far beyond the way it’s often portrayed in everyday conversation.

People sometimes joke about being “so OCD” when describing a tidy room or an organized desk. In reality, OCD is not about neatness or preference, it’s a complex mental health condition that affects thoughts, emotions + daily functioning.


OCD involves persistent, intrusive thoughts (obsessions) + powerful urges to perform certain behaviors (compulsions). These experiences aren’t habits or personality quirks; they are distressing, unwanted + often driven by anxiety. Symptoms can disrupt routines, relationships + overall well-being, creating a sense of losing control over one’s own mind + actions.


Because of this, casual misuse of the term can feel frustrating for those who live with it. Words like “organized” or “particular” are usually more accurate + don’t minimize what OCD actually is.


It’s also important to distinguish OCD from Obsessive-Compulsive Personality Disorder (OCPD). Despite similar names, they are different conditions.

OCPD is a personality disorder marked by a deep need for order, perfectionism + control, often at the expense of flexibility + efficiency. Common traits include rigid thinking, intense focus on rules + details, overcommitment to work + difficulty adapting to change.

I began taking my mental health seriously in March 2020, at the start of COVID lockdowns. Between the uncertainty of the pandemic + my struggles with OCD, anxiety, panic attacks + depression, virtual therapy felt like a manageable starting point.


For years, I avoided therapy. Part of me resisted the vulnerability it requires + part of me feared having to repeatedly start over if I didn’t connect with the right therapist. That process felt exhausting before it even began.


Thankfully, I was matched with someone I connected with immediately. I’ll share more about that experience + resources for finding support in a future post. For now, I’ll just say this: help exists + you don’t have to navigate things alone. Recently, I’ve been focusing on setting + maintaining personal boundaries. It’s an ongoing process.


Some boundaries I’m practicing include:

  • Logging off + not responding to messages after a certain time

  • Saying no to things that feel misaligned

  • Pausing before reacting when I feel triggered

  • Being mindful of time spent on social media

  • Allowing myself to rest without guilt


For most of my life, I leaned toward holistic approaches to healing. I still value them, but I’ve also come to see the role of conventional medicine. Ideally, both can work together.

It took time for me to feel comfortable trying medication, but during the pandemic my symptoms intensified to a point where I wanted additional support. I started taking Zoloft + it has made a meaningful difference. Even so, medication isn’t a complete solution, I continue to rely on therapy + daily habits to manage my symptoms.


After my recent diagnosis, my brother shared a general post about delayed mental health diagnoses. The responses were eye-opening. Several people described experiencing symptoms for years, often since childhood, without understanding what they were dealing with. Many didn’t receive a diagnosis until adulthood, sometimes after reaching a crisis point. Reading those stories made me reflect on my own early experiences.


As a child, I remember feeling deeply distressed when things were moved or altered. One moment that stands out involved a friend rearranging items on my desk. My reaction, intense anger + overwhelm, felt disproportionate, even at the time. Looking back, it makes more sense now.


There were other moments like that, times when my emotional responses didn’t seem to match the situation. Much of it stemmed from a need for control or a fear I didn’t yet know how to express.


As a teenager, I watched Mad Love, starring Drew Barrymore + Chris O’Donnell. Although it portrayed bipolar disorder rather than OCD, it was one of the first times I saw mental illness depicted in a way that felt human + real.


Through therapy, I’ve been able to connect many past experiences to OCD. My symptoms gradually became more intense, though it wasn’t always visible to others, especially when I was living away from home.


When I moved back during the pandemic, everything became more apparent. Seeing those struggles up close was difficult for my family, but it also created an opportunity for more honest conversations + understanding.


Research shows that women experience anxiety disorders at nearly twice the rate of men, which highlights the importance of early awareness + support.


Some common signs of OCD include:

  • Intrusive, distressing thoughts

  • Repetitive behaviors or mental rituals to reduce anxiety

  • A need for things to feel “just right”

  • Repeated checking or reassurance-seeking

  • Difficulty concentrating due to persistent thoughts

  • Interference with daily life, work, or relationships


At its core, OCD operates as a cycle: obsessive thoughts create anxiety, compulsions provide temporary relief + then the thoughts return, starting the process again.

For me, compulsions often developed as a way to create a sense of control during times of fear or uncertainty.


Common triggers included:

  • Conflict or tension

  • Trouble sleeping

  • Health-related fears

  • Stressful life events


During the pandemic, several intense experiences heightened these triggers, including my parents’ health issues + emergency situations that left me feeling powerless.


I was also diagnosed with Premenstrual Dysphoric Disorder (PMDD), which can amplify emotional + behavioral symptoms. Together, PMDD + OCD made certain periods especially difficult. Medication has helped reduce the intensity of both.


Some of the compulsions I’ve worked through include:

  • Constant organizing + cleaning, sometimes to the point of exhaustion

  • Replaying past situations + analyzing them repeatedly

  • Fixating on traumatic memories

  • Excessive sanitizing

  • Performing rituals tied to safety or fear

  • Working to the point where productivity became compulsive rather than intentional


These behaviors were attempts to manage anxiety, even when they interfered with daily life.

I’m still learning + I plan to share more about what has helped me, especially strategies from therapy that have made a difference. I’m deeply grateful for the support I’ve received from my family, doctor + therapist along the way.


If any part of this resonates with you, consider reaching out to a qualified professional. Everyone’s experience is different + what works for one person may not work for another, but support is available.


My goal in sharing this is simple: to raise awareness + encourage more open conversations about mental health.

 
 
 

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