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What is Autism?


I can’t improve on Dr. Nick Walker’s description any better, so I’ve quoted him below.


"I’ve seen so many versions of that obligatory “What Is Autism” or “About Autism” text. And they’re almost all terrible. For starters, almost all of them – even the versions written by people who claim to be in favor of “autism acceptance” or to support the neurodiversity paradigm – use the language of the pathology paradigm, which intrinsically contributes to the oppression of autistic people. Since I couldn’t find such a piece of text elsewhere, I wrote one. And here it is."


"Autism is a genetically-based human neurological variant. The complex set of interrelated characteristics that distinguish autistic neurology from non-autistic neurology is not yet fully understood, but current evidence indicates that the central distinction is that autistic brains are characterized by particularly high levels of synaptic connectivity and responsiveness. This tends to make the autistic individual’s subjective experience more intense and chaotic than that of non-autistic individuals: on both the sensorimotor and cognitive levels, the autistic mind tends to register more information, and the impact of each bit of information tends to be both stronger and less predictable."


"Autism is a developmental phenomenon, meaning that it begins in utero and has a pervasive influence on development, on multiple levels, throughout the lifespan. Autism produces distinctive, atypical ways of thinking, moving, interaction, and sensory and cognitive processing. One analogy that has often been made is that autistic individuals have a different neurological “operating system” than non-autistic individuals."


"According to current estimates, somewhere between one percent and two percent of the world’s population is autistic. While the number of individuals diagnosed as autistic has increased continually over the past few decades, evidence suggests that this increase in diagnosis is the result of increased public and professional awareness, rather than an actual increase in the prevalence of autism."


"Despite underlying neurological commonalities, autistic individuals are vastly different from one another. Some autistic individuals exhibit exceptional cognitive talents. However, in the context of a society designed around the sensory, cognitive, developmental, and social needs of non-autistic individuals, autistic individuals are almost always disabled to some degree – sometimes quite obviously, and sometimes more subtly."


"Autism is still widely regarded as a “disorder,” but this view has been challenged in recent years by proponents of the neurodiversity model, which holds that Autism and other neurocognitive variants are simply part of the natural spectrum of human biodiversity, like variations in ethnicity or sexual orientation. Ultimately, to describe autism as a disorder represents a value judgment rather than a scientific fact." Copyright © 2016 by Nick Walker





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Sensory Overload


Sensory overload is when an autistic person finds it difficult to process their feelings or other sensory information, and go into a state or breakdown.


Sensory overload can be triggered by a number of things, and differs from person to person. Many, autistic people have trouble processing loud or complex noises, textures of materials they can touch or see, among other things.











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Stimming


The word stim is short for self-stimulation. Stimming is something an autistic person does to make themselves feel good and keep themselves comfortable and to relieve tension.


Autistic people often have things they do to Stim, which may include physical activities, such as chewing or biting down on things, or mental activities, such as listening to specific sounds or looking at specific textures or images.




Why Stim ?


  • Stimming can help BLOCK out extra sensory input.

  • Stimming helps provide EXTRA sensory input when needed.

  • Management of emotions - positive and negative EMOTIONS may trigger a burst of stimming.

  • SOME stims serve the purpose of soothing or comforting.



"A stim is not the same as a tic. Where stims are rhythmic and regular, tics are non-rhythmic and sudden. Both can (sometimes) be held back, although holding back both feels very uncomfortable. While holding back a tic seems closer to holding back a sneeze, I would say that holding back a stim could be compared to holding off on scratching an itch (if that itch never went away, and kept increasing with time, like a mosquito with its nose in your flesh that refuses to leave)." - Kirsten Lindsmith, from her blog: The Artism Spectrum

The most famous hallmarks of autistic stimming can be divided into three major categories:


  • Hand stimming, including hand flapping, finger waving, and finger wiggling, clapping hands, snapping fingers

  • Body stimming, including rocking, spinning, and head bobbing, squinting, rolling eyes, swinging, grinding teeth, licking, chewing and sucking on objects, staring at moving objects, wheels, trains for long periods of time.

  • Vocal stimming, including humming, throat clearing, groaning, screeching, dropping things to hear their sound and various forms of echolalia. Learn more about echolalia HERE.


I have put together a great section of stim toys + more HERE.


Be sure to check it often as I'm constantly updating it with more items + please feel free to contact me with more suggestions to add to my list.




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Stimming with Music


Many autistic people have certain songs that help them to stim. For love of these songs, autistic people will often listen to them over and over again, to help them feel good. These certain songs or sounds often make the person who uses them to stim feel very happy and very comfortable, often causing them to feel overstimulated and excited (which is sometimes why some autistic people love to do "happy hands").




Autistic Behaviors


  • No eye Contact - Some, not all autistic people do not like eye contact as it is too intimate and intense and they will avoid. It can even cause pain if forced.


  • Sitting in certain positions - Some, not all autistic people are often very bendable. Ehlers-Danlos syndrome is a common comorbidity and many autistic people feel more comfortable in slightly contorted positions.


  • Stammering when excited - Some, not all autistic people often get so passionate about some subjects, that they can struggle to get the words out as they all get caught in the annoying bottleneck of actually having to leave their mouths.


  • Facial movements + stretches - Part of stimming, really, as it's generally a comfort or stress release mechanism. It is a harmless, natural action.


  • Meltdown - There is nothing abnormal about having a meltdown - all humans can. It's just autistic stress levels are so high that they tend to happen more frequently. But they're seen as failing of the autistic people rather than a failing of their surroundings, which is more accurate.


  • Rigid routines - Many autistic people like this as it removes possible stressors from the day, keeping things nice and calm. It is not weird or bad, it is a perfectly sound way of managing stress. They can find change and transitions difficult to cope with. They might like to eat, sleep or leave the house in the same way every time. For example, children might go to bed happily if you follow their regular bedtime routines, but won’t settle if the routines are broken. They might get very upset if their route to school is changed, or they might insist on putting their clothes on in the same order each morning.


  • Rituals - Some autistic children and teenagers have rituals. For example, some children might keep favorite objects in specific places, like the bottom corner of a drawer in the bedroom. They might have to get their objects out and touch them before bed. Or they might drink only from particular cups, or ask the same questions and always need specific answers.


  • Organizing, lining up, collecting things (obsessions) - autistic people can be very intense and focused about favourite toys, activities and topics of conversation. Some autistic people move from one interest or obsession to another, and the interests last for weeks or months before they change. Others develop an interest – for example, in trains – in early childhood and continue this interest through adolescence and into adulthood. Organizing, lining up and stacking objects is a form of stimming.


"So when you see an autistic person engaging in repetitive behavior (organizing, lining things up, collecting things), instead of thinking “that kid is doing nothing,” think “that kid’s brain is hard at work.” They may be imagining something, reviewing something that happened, or trying to figure out the answer to a question." - Miss Luna Rose


To learn more about autism obsessive behavior, routines and rituals, click HERE.



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How To Help


Autistic people experience sensory overload differently. There are however general rules. You should always minimize sensory input for the person experiencing overload. This means that you should stop doing whatever you think could be triggering their overload. Which can be anything from:









  • Lowering your voice and muffle or silence all noise - which will help to ease the overload over time and prevent it from getting a lot worse.

  • Dim the lights

  • Do not touch the person overloading - this may be uncomfortable for them.

  • Please take an autistic person seriously when they are overloading. They are not doing this for attention, this is not an intentional thing. Many autistic people, children especially, are not taken seriously when they are overloading, which can lead to more issues. Please take note if you are a guardian, teacher, family member, friend etc.

  • Include autistic people in your activism.





Learn More About Autism



ORGANIZATIONS



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Gnome Surf - TradeA 501c3 Non-Profit Surf Therapy Organization providing innovative health + wellness alternatives. I can't speak on many organizations at the moment, but I can speak about Gnome Surf. My niece + nephews have been attending surf + skateboard lessons with this wonderful organization started by Christopher Antao. Visit the GNOME SURF website HERE.








WEBSITES



  • The Autism Advantage - Trade secrets from the autistic mind: How autistic people think, and what we can learn. Click the link HERE to go to the website.


  • The Autisticats - An awesome website by three autistic young adults, (Eden & Leo, Laurel) figuring out life and sharing their experiences as neurodivergent people. Click the link HERE to go to their website.



  • Autistic Dreams - A wonderful website by writer and artist , Miss. Luna Rose. Click the link HERE to go to her website.


  • Autistic & Unapologetic - An autism awareness site founded by one lad (James Sinclair) on a journey to find out what makes him (autis)tic. Click the link HERE to go to Jame's website.


  • Neurocosmopolitianism - A website by Dr. Nick Walker which features his academic work, articles, aikido, autistic press and a webcomic! Click the link HERE to go to his website. Click HERE for Dr. Nick Walker's Bio.


  • The Art of Autism - Dana Trick's blog post, "We Gotta Talk About The Representation of Autistic Characters in Fiction" is a must read. Check it out HERE.


  • Wrong Planet - A web community designed for individuals (and parents of) autistic people and ADHD. Click the link HERE to go to the website.


  • The Australian Parenting Website - Signs of autism in children, teenagers and adults. Click the link HERE to go to the website.


  • Links + Resources - Click HERE for more links and resources for Autism Screening Tests, Social Resources, Website + Pages, Books and Blogs. Thank you to Kirsten Lindsmith, an artist, writer, software developer, and autism advocate for this list that she has included on her website.




INSTAGRAM ACCCOUNTS




TV + MOVIES


"Why do we care if films and TV shows that are ostensibly well-meaning don’t center us? While things are improving, the majority of neurodivergent and disabled characters are still portrayed by abled actors, meaning that neurodivergent and disabled actors get less opportunities. Not only that, but film and TV impact how we understand the world, and a dominating, stereotypical representation of autism has a tangible impact on autistic people’s lives." - Marianne Eloise



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  • Everything's Gonna Be Ok - (Freeform) - An American comedy television series created by autistic Australian comedian Josh Thomas. Boys are more likely to be diagnosed with autism than girls, according to the CDC. Not only does this Freeform series offer a female perspective, but actress Kayla Cromer, who plays Matilda, is on the spectrum herself. Nicholas, an Australian in his twenties, visits his American father and two teenage half-sisters in Los Angeles. During his visit, he learns that their father is terminally ill and wants Nicholas to become the guardian to Genevieve and Matilda, because their mother is already dead





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  • Sesame Street - It’s about time that the classic children’s television show introduce a character on the spectrum. Enter Julia, an adorable muppet of a girl who effectively teaches children at home about the differences and similarities of autistic people. (Note: At the time of writing this post, I was unaware of Sesame Street's connection with Autism Speaks which is considered a fear mongering hate organization by many autistic people. Read more HERE . )




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Three popular PBS KIDS animated series are debuting new themed episodes timed to Autism Acceptance Month, including a half-hour special from Hero Elementary , a special episode of Emmy Award winner Daniel Tiger’s Neighborhood featuring a bright young guest star, and a new profile in history from Xavier Riddle and the Secret Museum, based on the bestselling books by Brad Meltzer. Read more HERE .






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  • Atypical - (Netflix) - An American comedy-drama series that focuses on the life of 18-year-old Sam Gardner (Keir Gilchrist), who is an autistic young adult. The first season received mostly positive reviews, though the show was criticized for its lack of autistic actors and perceived inaccuracies in its depiction of autism. The second season featured more autistic actors and writers, and also received mostly positive reviews. The third season continued this development and received overwhelmingly positive reviews.







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  • I am Greta - (Hulu) - The story of teenage climate activist Greta Thunberg is told through compelling, never-before-seen footage in this intimate documentary. Starting with her one-person school strike for climate action outside the Swedish Parliament, the film follows Greta, an autistic shy student, in her rise to prominence and her galvanizing global impact as she sparks school strikes around the world. The film culminates with her extraordinary wind-powered voyage across the Atlantic Ocean to speak at the UN Climate Action Summit in New York City.


Autistic actors are actually not as rare as you may think and it only takes a quick Google search to see a plethora of referenced responses including:


  • Daryl Hannah (see IMDB for a list of her films HERE)

  • Paddy Considine (see IMDB for a list of his films HERE)

  • Dan Aykroyd (see IMDB for a list of his films HERE)

  • Brandon Polansky & Samantha Elisofon (Keep the Change)

  • Tylan Grant (see IMDB for a list of Tylan's films HERE)

  • Sir Anthony Hopkins (see IMDB for a list of his films HERE)

  • Kayla Cromer (see IMDB for a list of her films HERE)

  • Josh Thomas (see IMDB for a list of his work HERE)


Click HERE for a few more TV and movies with Autistic characters.





PLAYLISTS


  • Eden (of The Autisticats) Autism Related Songs Playlist on Spotify - Click HERE to go to Eden's playlists. (Note: There is a FREE option to join Spotify. Just sign up, no credit card information is asked of you. It is totally free, it just includes advertisements / commercial breaks unlike the paid version which doesn't interrupt with adverts.)


  • Leo of (The Autisticats) Original Songs on Spotify - Click HERE to listen to Leo's original songs!






History's Most Inspiring People on the Autism Spectrum



Though autism did not become the mainstream diagnosis it is today until well into the 20th century, it is certainly not anything new. Indeed, history is full of people who many consider to be or have been somewhere on the autism spectrum. Like the 30 people on this list HERE.



While autism remains relatively misunderstood, one thing is for certain: autistic people are just as capable as anyone else of achieving incredible success. The proof? These famous autistic people: 20 Incredibly Successful People on the Spectrum. Read more about them HERE.


Amazing Autistic Women - These women confirm that differences cannot prevent one from doing what one loves—or shattering glass ceilings. Read more about these amazing women HERE.

Greta Thunberg - A Swedish environmental activist who is internationally known for challenging world leaders to take immediate action against climate change. Learn more about Greta when she was named Time magazine's 2019 Person of The Year, HERE.


Paige Layle - Canadian teen shatters autism stereotypes. Read more about Paige HERE.




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  • Landmark College - Click HERE to go to the Landmark College website. Thank you Leo (of The Autisticats) for this information!



While many colleges offer special programs for students with learning disabilities (LD) and other learning challenges, Landmark College is one of the only accredited colleges in the United States designed exclusively for students who learn differently, including students with learning disabilities (such as dyslexia), attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD), and Autism.


Landmark College's mission is to transform the way students learn, educators teach, and the public thinks about education. Landmark College provides highly accessible approaches to learning that empower individuals who learn differently to exceed their aspirations and to achieve their greatest potential. Through the Landmark College Institute for Research and Training, the College aims to extend its mission across the nation and throughout the world. Landmark College is located in Putney, Vermont, in the southeastern tip of the state.





Glossary of Autistic Terms


Click the link HERE to view a glossary of autistic terms by The Autism Advantage.





Petitions


  • Autism Awareness - Learn more about each petition HERE. (Note: Be sure to check both categories:"Most Recent" and "Trending")



Public Speakers with Autism


Kirsten Lindsmith is an artist, writer, software developer, and autism advocate. After receiving an Autism diagnosis at the age of 19, she began co-hosting the online television show Autism Talk TV and speaking at conferences and events about her experience as a woman on the spectrum. Kirsten has written columns for Wrong Planet and Autism After 16, and was profiled in The New York Times. She is a member of the board of advisors for the Yale Child Study Center’s Initiative for Girls and Women with Autism Spectrum Disorder. She currently works as a full-time software engineer and part-time autism consultant.


Kirsten graduated from the University of Massachusetts Amherst with a combined degree in Biology, Microbiology, and Anthropology, with a concentration in Vertebrate Ontogeny and Phylogeny. Her interests include javascript, neurodiversity, human and animal biology and behavior, and petting soft cats. She lives in New York City with her cat, Buffy.


Kirsten has been speaking at conferences, schools, workshops, and other events about autism and neurodiversity for almost 10 years. Her favorite topics include and how autism relates to growing up, puberty, sexuality, relationships, gender, and developing practical life skills. If you are interested in bringing Kirsten to speak at your institution, event, or workshop, visit her website HERE.


Update: One of my awesome readers, sent me an email with a link to this Helpful Online Safety Guide For People With Autism Spectrum Disorders, which you can check out HERE. Thank you Chris for sending that to me!




Please comment below or send me a message with more recommendations and/or suggestions about this post.


I would love to hear more from the #ActuallyAutistic community.

 
 
 
  • NicoleDeRosa
  • Mar 27
  • 11 min read

Updated: Jul 22



MY TRAVEL

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Below is a well researched list of iconic hotels + restaurants that I would love to enjoy someday. Some of the locations I have first hand knowledge about from family + friends who have stayed at some of the hotels or dined at some of the restaurants mentioned below.

If you would like to book a stay at one or more of the hotels below, just click on the hotel name + it will take you to the Expedia website with my affiliate link. Thank you to Expedia Group for partnering with me on this post.


FRENCH RIVIERA


Otherwise known as the South of France includes: St. Tropez, Saint Raphaël, Antibes, Saint-Jean-Cap-Ferrat. The French Riviera is Europe's most storied summer playground. Stretching from Marseilles to Menton, expect a scenic, rocky coast speckled with iconic hotels, beautiful white sand beaches, hidden coves + free-flowing rosé. 


Iconic PLACES TO STAY




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Hotel du Cap-Eden-Roc - 167-165 Bd J. F. Kennedy, 06160 Antibes, France

This heavenly setting above the rocks has captivated all at first sight. When Le Figaro’s founder, Auguste De Villemessant, first set eyes on ‘Le Cap’, he envisaged Villa Soleil, a place of inspiration for writers. Dashing Russian aristocrats Paul de Fersen, + then Alexis de Plestcheyeff, eventually brought his idea to life + in 1870 Grand Hotel du Cap began her elegant history. It was visionary hotelier, Antoine Sella, who established a halcyon retreat for creative spirits + grand romantic encounters, the Riviera legend was born. 




CANNES




Iconic PLACES TO STAY


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Hôtel Martinez - 73 Bd de la Croisette, 06400 Cannes, France. 

A luxury eco-certified hotel near Promenade de la Croisette. Located close to Palace of Festivals + Conferences + Cannes Harbour, Hôtel Martinez, in The Unbound Collection by Hyatt provides a beach bar, a terrace + shopping on site.

With a private beach, beachfront dining + sun loungers, this hotel is the perfect place to soak up some sun. For some rest + relaxation, visit the Turkish bath/hammam, + indulge in a body treatment, a body scrub, or a manicure/pedicure.

At the 3 on-site restaurants, enjoy breakfast, lunch, dinner + a Michelin star rated meal. Yoga classes + fitness classes are offered at the gym; other things to do include water skiing + bike rentals.
Instagram: @Hotel.Martinez_Cannes 




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Bijou Plage - Private Beach, Restaurant + Cocktail Bar (Square Verdun, Bd de la Croisette, 06400 Cannes, France)   


Bistrot Casanova - 4 bis rue Hoche 06400 Cannes France 









MONACO 

Monte Carlo



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The Maybourne Riviera - 1551 Rte de la Turbie, 06190 Roquebrune-Cap-Martin, France

A luxury boutique hotel near Casino Monte Carlo. Consider a stay at The Maybourne Riviera, Maybourne Hotel Collection + take advantage of free breakfast, a beach bar + a poolside bar.

This hotel is a great place to bask in the sun with a nearby private beach, sun loungers + a free beach shuttle.

Indulge in a manicure/pedicure, hydrotherapy + a body wrap at The Maybourne Riviera Spa, the onsite spa.

At the 4 on-site restaurants, enjoy lunch, dinner, kids' meals, light fare + a Michelin star rated meal.

Instagram: Part of @MaybourneHotelGroup w/ Michelin starred @RestaurantCeto



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Hotel Metropole Monte Carlo - 4 Av. de la Madone, 98000 Monaco

A luxury family-friendly hotel near Casino Monte Carlo. Located close to Circuit de Monaco + Grimaldi Forum, Hôtel Métropole Monte-Carlo – The Leading Hotels of the World provides a poolside bar, a terrace + a shopping mall on site. Active travelers can enjoy pilates at this hotel. Indulge in a deep-tissue massage, a body treatment + a facial at Spa Metropole By Givenchy, the onsite spa. At the 4 on-site restaurants, enjoy breakfast, lunch, dinner + a Michelin star rated meal. Yoga classes are offered at the gym; the property also has a garden, a library + dry cleaning/laundry services + a free kid's club.




NEARBY TOWN TO VISIT - Limone Piemonte


Limone Piemonte (Vivaro-Alpine: Limon) is a comune (municipality) in the Province of Cuneo in the Italian region Piedmont, located about 100 kilometres (62 mi) south of Turin + about 20 kilometres (12 mi) south of Cuneo, on the border w/ France.

Limone Piemonte is a mountain resort in Italy's Cuneo province that's accessible by car from Monaco + the French Riviera. It's also possible to reach Limone by train from Monaco-Monte-Carlo, which takes about 5 hours + 26 minutes.

Limone is near the Ligurian Riviera + the Riserva Bianca ski area, which has 80 km of slopes + 17 ski lifts.

Other ways to get to Limone include:

  • Helicopter: Charter a helicopter from Monaco to Limone for a scenic flight over the Alps.

  • Bus: Take a scheduled bus to the hamlets, ski slopes + ski lifts.

  • Shuttle: In winter, take a shuttle from the town center to the ski lifts.




NICE


Where To EAT


Le Petite Maison - 11 rue Saint François de Paule

Refined niçoise + Mediterranean meat + seafood dishes in an elegant setting with sidewalk dining.
Instagram: @lapetitemaison_nice
Email: lpmnice@gmail.com
 



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Airelles Gordes, La Bastide - 61 Rue de la Combe, Gordes 84220 

Luxury family-friendly palace near Luberon Regional Park. Located close to Château de Gordes + Village des Bories, Airelles, La Bastide de Gordes provides a free breakfast buffet, an adjacent golf course + a poolside bar.

Indulge in a facial, reflexology + a massage at the onsite spa.

The on-site Michelin star rated restaurant, L'Orangerie, offers breakfast, brunch, lunch, dinner + French cuisine.

Fitness classes + yoga classes are offered at the gym; Airelles, La Bastide de Gordes also has a terrace, shopping on site + a garden. In addition to a playground + a hair salon, guests can also enjoy a seasonal outdoor pool + an indoor pool.

Instagram:
An @AirellesCollection Hotel 
Restaurant: @CloverGordes
Restaurant: @BastideDePierres
   



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Hotel Les Roches Rouges - 90 Bd de la 36ème division du Texas, 83530 Saint-Raphaël, France

A luxury hotel located in Le Dramont. Consider a stay at Les Roches Rouges, part of the Beaumier Hotels Collection + take advantage of a free breakfast buffet, a poolside bar + a terrace.

Adventurous travelers may like the scuba diving, cycling, + beach yoga. Treat yourself to a massage at the onsite spa. Guests can find other amenities such as a garden + a library.

Be sure to enjoy Mediterranean cuisine + a beachfront location at the 2 on-site restaurants which includes the Michelin star restaurant Récif by Chef Jose Bailly.

Instagram: @JoseBailly


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Hôtel Cap-Estel - 1312 Av. Raymond Poincaré, 06360 Èze, France

Luxury hotel by the sea. A poolside bar, a terrace + a garden are just a few of the amenities provided at Hôtel Cap-Estel. This hotel is a great place to bask in the sun with a private beach + sun loungers.

Treat yourself to hydrotherapy, a body scrub, or a massage at the onsite spa.

The on-site restaurant offers lunch + dinner.









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Chateau La Coste + Villa La Coste -  2750 Route De La Cride, 13610 Le Puy-Sainte-Réparade, France. A 600-acre sculpture park, art destination + organic winery in Provence. The property includes Villa La Coste a luxury hotel.

Instagram:
@VillaLaCoste
Host @FrancisMallmann_Provence



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Château de Fonscolombe - Rte de Saint-Canadet, 13610 Le Puy-Sainte-Réparade, France. A luxurious 5-star hotel + vineyard in Provence, France, nestled in a secluded area near Le Puy-Sainte-Réparade, offering a blend of history, elegance, + relaxation. 



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Hôtel + Spa des Gorges du Verdon - 50 Chem. de Boulogne, 04120 La Palud-sur-Verdon, France. Enjoy 4-star luxury, great local cuisine with exceptional views over the Natural Regional Park of Verdon.



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Crillon Le Brave - Place de l'Eglise, 84410 Crillon-le-Brave, France

A 5-star hotel in the heart of the Vaucluse, occupying virtually all of a 17th-century village perched in the foothills of the Mont Ventoux, it's a draw for the elevated location + views. Be sure to dine at the restaurant, La Madeleine.

Instagram: @La_Madeleine_Restaurant Part of @MaisonSpariente



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Château de Berne - Chemin des Imberts, 83780 Flayosc, France 

A prestigious 18th-century estate in Provence, France, known for its wine production, 5-star Relais & Châteaux hotel, Michelin-starred restaurant + spa, making it a popular destination for wine tourism + relaxation. 



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Ultimate Provence - 7270 Route du Luc, La Garde-Freinet

Sitting within immaculate organic vineyards, UP Ultimate Provence Hotel, a Member of Small Luxury Hotels of the World, is the perfect place to unwind. It is a contemporary boutique hotel with its own vineyard, chic outdoor bar and award-winning rosé in the South of France.

Instagram: Part of @SmallLuxuryHotels + @ARTravelHotels  



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Loulou Restaurants - Plage de Pampelonne, 1080 Chem. des Tamaris, 83350 Ramatuelle, France


Loulou Restaurants - 46 Av. Winston Churchill, 06190 Roquebrune-Cap-Martin, France

edú restaurant - 17 Av. Albert Schweitzer, 13210 Saint-Rémy-de-Provence, France











TOWNS TO VISIT IN

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Village de Lourmarin - Lourmarin is not a typical perched, hill-top village, but it is one of the loveliest Luberon villages + also officially one of The Most Beautiful Villages in France.

If your idea of a perfect Provence village includes cafes + restaurants spilling out onto the cobbled streets, Lourmarin is the place for you.

There must be 15 restaurants + cafes to choose from, from simple to Michelin-starred. In the centre of the village where the roads converge there are tables everywhere on the sidewalk for anything from a coffee in the morning sun to a 5-course dinner.





Where To STAY




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LE MOULIN - Av. Raoul Dautry, 84160 Lourmarin, France

An inn + local shop in a typically charming Provençal village. Inspiring, harmonious + full of life!


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LE GALINIER - 46 Av. du 8 Mai 1945, 84160 Lourmarin, France

The guest house (on the Le Moulin property mentioned above) offers the perfect setting in which to rest as you gaze at the beautiful scenery.



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Bonnieux - One of the most impressive Luberon villages, in size + amenities, with plenty of restaurants + cafes to choose from, a really good market on Friday morning, even a bakery museum!









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CAPELONGUE - Les Claparèdes, 550 Chem. des Cabanes, 84480 Bonnieux, France.

With views over the village of Bonnieux + Mont Ventoux, amid cicadas + fig trees, sits a perfect Provençal haven of peace + quiet.




MORE TOWNS TO VISIT IN

Provence-Alpes-Côte d'Azur


Saint-Raphaël - A resort town on the French Riviera (Côte d'Azur) in southeastern France, in the Var department, known for its beaches + proximity to the Massif de l'Estérel. Numerous beaches line the Mediterranean coast, some in rocky coves like Fournas + Maupas.

Èze is a seaside commune in the Alpes-Maritimes department in the Provence-Alpes-Côte d'Azur region in Southeastern France. It is located on the French Riviera, 8.5 km to the northeast of Nice + 4.5 km to the west of Monaco.
 




SAINT-TROPEZ


Nestled along the French Riviera + a short drive from Nice or Cannes, St. Tropez is one of the liveliest towns along the coast during the summer.




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Hôtel Le Y - Av. Paul Signac, 83990 Saint-Tropez, France

A charming boutique hotel located on the heights of the mythical village, at the foot of the Citadel, two minutes from the Port + the beach of La Ponche.

Lounge at the pool + be sure to order the club sandwich!









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Chateau de la Messardiere - 2 Route de Tahiti, Saint Tropez.

An Aires Collection Hotel. A palace hotel that celebrates pleasures great + small. Close enough to Saint-Tropez + its sizzling beaches to be convenient for guests. Set within 13 idyllic hectares of parasol pines, cypress trees + jasmine, Château de La Messardière is a jewel of the Côte d'Azur. 

Instagram: @airescollection  




Where To EAT


Mory Sacko at Louis Vuitton - Place des Lices, 83990 Saint-Tropez

Michelin-starred Mory Sacko is shaking up the French dining scene, from Paris to Saint-Tropez. Featuring a menu inspired by African + Japanese cuisines.

Check out these Instagram accounts:
@mory_sacko_
@MorySackoatLouis Vuitton  
@CarraraRestaurant  
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SOUTHEASTERN FRANCE


GORDES 

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LES BAUX DE PROVENCE 


(Provence-Alpes-Côte d'Azur region in southeastern France)



Where To STAY




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Domaine de Manville - 13520 Les Baux-de-Provence, France

A country house hotel in the heart of the Provence with 5-star service villas + a luxury, olive-enshrouded spa. 



Where To EAT


Mesiba - 15 B Av. André et Denis Pellissier, 13210 Saint-Rémy-de-Provence, France

La Tete d'ail - 13 Bd Anatole France, 13600 La Ciotat, France.
The cutest family owned restaurant.

La Chassagnette - Mas de la Chassagnette, D36 Route Sambuc, 13200 Arles, France. A Michelin starred restaurant on an organic farm.


Things TO DO


  • Biarritz - In June - end of July, visit the lavender fields when they are in full bloom. Go to Abbaye de Senanque Notre Dame to check out the fields.

  • Les Baux de Provence - Carrier de Lumière + visit the Château.

  • Visit all the neighboring villages in the area. Rent a car to make it easy.

  • Visit Saint Remy, Luberon + Gordes which is known as the most beautiful place in the world.

  • Outdoor market in the heart of Saint Remy on Wednesdays from 7am - 2pm.




Where To STAY




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Villa Hautvallon - 783 Rte de Murs, 84220 Gordes, France

Located just 10 minutes walk from the center of the historic village of Gordes, Villa Hautvallon is the ideal place to stay during your visit to the region.




BIARRITZ 

Southwestern France


Where To STAY



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Hôtel Du Palais Biarritz - 1 Av. de l'Impératrice, 64200 Biarritz

The Unbound Collection by Hyatt. An iconic gem of Biarritz, overlooking the Atlantic Ocean. Founded in 1854, this former imperial residence of Napoleon III + Empress Eugénie invites you to a unique stay, where history + charm meet the extraordinary.


Where To EAT


La Table d'Aurélien Largeau - Located inside the Hôtel Du Palais Biarritz.



BORDEAUX 



Saint-Émilion - near Bordeaux. Bordeaux isn't just a city with the same name as the famous French wine. With 350 historical buildings + monuments, dozens of museums + art galleries, a brand new wine experience center + some of the best food in all of France, it's no wonder even the Parisians are leaving Paris for Bordeaux. 



VINEYARD + WINERY


Château Ambe Tour Pourret - D243, Secteur Pourret, 33330 Saint-Émilion, France
Email: visite@vignobles-lannoye.fr 



Where To EAT


Le Poulailler d'Augustin Volailler Rôtisseur - 1 Pl. du Pradeau, 33000 Bordeaux, France
Loulou Restaurants - 145 Rue de la Poste Airelles, 73150 Val-d'Isère, France



HOSSEGOR


A tiny coastal surf town in southwestern France.


Where To STAY



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Villa Seren Hossegor - 1111 Av. du Touring Club, 40150 Soorts-Hossegor, France

The spacious + comfortable guestrooms offer an uninterrupted view over Lake Hossegor.


Where To EAT


Le Bistro Balneaire - 1830 Av. du Touring Club, 40150 Soorts-Hossegor, France



Things TO DO


Surf Rental + Lessons

Chipiron Surfboards - 358 Av. des Charpentiers, 40150 Soorts-Hossegor, France

Check out these Instagram accounts:
@Madame_Chipiron
@Goldie_Blondie


MASSIGNAC

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MIDI-PYRENEES


(Southwest France)


Where To STAY



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Domaine des Etangs - 16310 Massignac, France

Auberge Resorts Collection. A 13th-century chateau turned luxury hotel in Southwestern France's charming countryside, has been named to the Condé Nast Traveler 2024 Gold List.
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Travel TIPS 



* Make several COPIES of your PASSPORT + IMPORTANT DOCUMENTS should you ever lose or misplace your items.

* It's always best to have extra copies of these things regardless, but especially when you've traveling overseas.

* There is a requirement for your passport to be good 6 months past your return date home. So, always check your passport renewal dates as it is a 10 - 13 week turnaround time to get one if you need it for an upcoming trip.



IMPORTANT Dates


La Fete Nationale - Also known as Bastille Day which is on July 14, became an official holiday in 1880. From the beginning, speeches, military parades + fireworks, along with public revelry, were part of the celebration.


BEST TIME To Go


Best time to cycle in France is end of May + early June (no longer rainy season) 



MICHELIN RESTAURANT Reservations 


A lot of the Michelin restaurants in Europe have an online reservation system. A lot have their own websites w/ English translation. They open their online booking about 3 months in advance.

You can also book your hotel reservations way in advance, especially if they are boutique hotels. Ask the concierge of the hotels you stay in to make activity / restaurant reservations way before you even arrive.





TAX Refunds 


If you spend more than $100 at any store + you don't live in the EU, you get a 12% tax refund back when you leave the EU. The more you spend, the more you get back.

All you have to do is show your passport, they will process documents at the register you're shopping at + give you an envelope that you can drop off at customs at the airport.

From there, you will get a 12% refund back in about 3-6 weeks since you are a foreigner.





Where are your favorite spots in the South of France?

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